So tonight, I witnessed a train wreck on stage. I have never in all my years dancing ever see someone fall so…complete. Usually there is an occasional stumble. Acceptable considering the stilts we strap onto our feet and call shoes. And sometimes there is an actual fall where you step on something as benign as a piece of ice on the floor.
But this girl…oh man.
I was sitting with a gent in between stages 2 and 3. Stage 3 happened to be in the background while I was chatting. I see this itty bitty girl with great big 8 inch heels standing on the rack, when suddenly her shoe rolls out from under her. She lands on her thigh/butt on the rail, bounces into a chair, and tumbles onto her ass on the floor. As I jumped out of my chair, hiding my smile, I could almost hear the little birdies flying in a circle above her head! She sat there on the floor stunned in wonderment. I tried to help her up but, being embarrassed, she refused. She got back on the stage, took her other shoe off and ‘danced’ the rest of the set. @_@
I went back to the table and my guy asked what had happened. “Gravity kicked her ass!”, I replied this time not hiding my smile and a chuckle.

Moral of the story?
Being sexy while drunk is impossible and gaining height via stripper shoes should be obtained by gradual progression.

Way to keep up the stereotype girlfriend!

Use Body Language to Your Advantage

You may have the smoothest skin, the shiniest hair, and the brightest eyes, but if you’re slouching and staring at the floor, no one is going to notice!

You may not be able to drastically change the face and the body that you were born with, but one thing that you can change immediately is your body language. Your posture and the way you move reflects your personality, your body awareness, and your health. You may have never really even thought about how you hold your body, but as anyone who has ever danced or modeled can tell you, body language communicates more than a thousand words.

Because you’ve probably moved in the same way all of your life, you may be the person who’s least prepared to see what your body language is communicating.

Ask a trusted friend to give you their honest opinion about what your body language is saying. Even better, ask them to introduce you to someone new at a party and then find out what the other person’s impessions of you were.

You can look fantastic, have amazing body language, and still mess up a first impression with a man. How? For example…

• You may be having a bad day and come off as grumpy even if you don’t mean to.
• You may be feeling tired and come across as dull and lacking in energy.
• You may be drunk and come across as loud, obnoxious, or tawdry.
• You may be nervous and come across as stiff and artificial.

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How long does it take for a man to decide if he wants to get to know you better? Mere minutes. When you meet a man for the first time, he will probably have you summed up before you’ve even opened your mouth – and he’s probably completely unaware that he’s doing it.

But don’t let that dishearten you…..you can still win over almost any guy as you can talk to him and win him over.

Today I’m going to tell you what triggers attraction in a man, how you can maximize your chances through body language, and how to take that attraction so that you can make money and have a great time..

What Do Men Look For, Anyway?

Men are visual creatures when it comes to attraction. Studies of the male brain have shown this beyond a doubt. But if you think that you’re summed up by your cup size and waist-to-hip ratio, think again. When a man views a woman for the first time, he focuses on the face and scans downwards. (Women, on the other hand, start at the shoes and scan upwards.)

Your face, your eyes, and your smile are essential to that all-important first impression. In general, men are biologically wired to seek signs of youth and vitality in a woman, which indicate fertility and biological fitness for child-bearing. Here’s just a few qualities that men look for – and how you can “fake” them for yourself:

• Smooth skin. No modern woman has an excuse for not having a thorough skincare regime that includes a facial cleanser, toner, day moisturizer/sunblock, night moisturizer, and eye cream. The right foundation is essential for that flawless complexion.
• White teeth. white teeth not only make you feel younger, but they also encourage you to smile more to show them off! There are plenty of over-the-counter whitening products available, but remember that such products should never replace regular dental checkups and cleanings. One quick trick to make your teeth appear even whiter? Wear bright lipstick! The contrast makes your teeth appear to gleam.
• Shiny hair. . Avoid washing your hair every day and shampoo over the top of conditioner if your hair is particularly brittle. Darker hair often appears healthier than lighter hair, so if your locks are damaged, you may want to try going a shade darker.
• Sparkling eyes. When we’re tired, one of the first places it shows up is in our eyes. Use eyedrops if necessary. Make sure that you get adequate rest, as there’s a good reason we call it “beauty sleep”!

A symmetrical, proportionate body with a waist-to-hip ratio of 70% is also highly attractive, so try and look for a dress/outfit that can cinch in certain parts of our body and enhance others. If you are able to use push-up bras and corsets that can shape your figure into the perfect hourglass comfortably and easily.

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>>Continue to Part 2 of Make a Great First Impression!