In a word?

Yes.

But allow me to explain. It has to do with how well you have taken care of yourself over the years and if plastic surgery is an option for you. For most women, your skin begins to lose its elasticity at about 40. That means that is when wrinkles begin to appear and flabby arms and even your butt begins to sag. However, if you look into facial peels, microderm abrasion, and other procedures you can still dance for quite a while.

The photo is of Tempest Storm and at 81 she still performs her burlesque shows in Vegas, NV. I’m not saying everyone can be a Tempest Storm but you don’t have to stop at 35 either.

If you are in the industry and are approaching 30 – stop freaking out! Women don’t reach their sexual maturity until about 30-34. It happened at 31 for me. Sexual maturity doesn’t mean you get super horny either. It is a change in attitude about sex and you’ve had enough experiences to know how and what it is you want from your partner. You also gain the ability to communicate it. This maturity is amazingly sexy to virtually everyone around you. I would wager that you will make more money after 30 than before.

In the fantasy world, young men drool over the experienced woman who knows what she’s doing and older men appreciate her confidence – meaning he doesn’t have to baby her ego.

<3 Perelandra

CLOTHING:

When it comes to stripper clothing, you can’t really afford to have something fit just a little too big or too small. While you are perusing through the online store catalog, you’ll notice that all of the cute outfits fit the models great. Which is fine if you look like them. I, on the other hand, am almost 6ft tall and curvy. For me, everything I try on seems 3-4 inches too short. So, if you have a style that you know fits you or need to replace your favorite gown, buy with confidence. Otherwise, go to your local lingerie shop, try on a few things to get familiar with the different brands, and save some money by purchasing online.
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SHOES:

I first began to buy shoes from Snaz75.com about 6 years ago. I have since switched companies as my favorite. Shoebuy.com consistently has the best price for stripper shoes as well as an incredible selection. Once you find a shoe that fits well, (for me its Pleaser’s) you can buy knowing that it will be the same shoe that the ‘costume lady’ brings in – and tons cheaper! I just bought 2 pair for $100 including shipping!!
Sexiest Shoes Ever!
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COSMETICS:

Just like clothing, I would only recommend buying make-up online if you already know what you want or are replacing items you have experience with. Color monitors and poor graphics can distort and discolor images and you run the very high risk of disappointment. Recently, I went to the M.A.C. store, looked at all the colors I wanted, then purchased a collection from an auction site. I wasn’t disappointed!
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BOOKS AND SOFTWARE: There is usually very low risk of buyers remorse when it comes to purchasing eBooks and other software. Most ‘how to’ eBooks have some sort time period for you to get your money back, i.e.; 30, 60, or 90 days. Software on the other hand can be more tricky. Just make sure you look at the return or customer satisfaction policy before purchasing.
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Regarding the DJ – If you’re going to request music, it is extremely important to remember to tip accordingly. Every club is different so the appropriate amount will vary. Usually there is a ‘minimum’ tip out amount that is due the end of the shift. It’s a good idea to ask management and then a few girls how much to tip extra. This is the second most important relationship you’ll have in the club so make sure you take care of them. From time to time, you’ll need them to skip you on the rotation so you can do more dances, use the restroom, or give you more time to get ready for your shift. In these examples make sure you tip some extra.
Being on time for your stage set is a great way to keep everyone happy. You may be in the middle of conversation but wrap it up fast so you can make your obligation. As an additional benefit, it also keeps the customer hanging and usually wanting more of your attention which (if done right) will translate into your time becoming more valuable.
Never give the DJ dirty looks from stage because he’s playing something you don’t like. The customers and management can see you or even worse – the owner of the club. This behavior shows immaturity and lack of professionalism. Once you are off stage you can discuss the music choice with the DJ. But be sure not to go up to him like a bat out of hell and all pissed off. Just politely ask him not to play that type of music or song again. DJ’s are usually cool people, so if you’re having a bad day or shift and snap at them or give them attitude, be sure to apologize. You’ll do yourself good by babying this relationship.
As a general rule don’t talk about the music to the customers while on stage. They really don’t care what song is playing and if your good at what you do, they probably wont even hear the music. *wink wink* What really matters is that you remain sexy and inviting no matter what the song. The urge to discuss the poor music choice comes from needing to make some excuse or reason for validation as to why you aren’t able to ‘get in the mood’. Remaining focused on what you are doing is the only way to get through. Don’t let the music ruin a perfectly good opportunity to make money. It’s only a small part in the over all show. It only becomes a big deal if you make it out to be.