Social beliefs and pressures shape what we think is the ideal woman. Most women get breast implants because they think it will make them more money. To some degree it does! Mostly, its about what you think of yourself and if bigger breasts means that you feel sexier, then that is what really makes you more money. Our industry is driven by what women think men like. Duh, men like boobies.

Now, personally, I’m not into surgery but I am curious about alternative natural ways to make my breasts larger. I’m figuring that if a pill can make a man’s penis bigger, longer, and wider, then maybe there is something to the claims of a pill or cream to help firm, lift, and enhance our breasts.

My good friend/co-worker was talking about breast enhancement cream/pills. Specifically Bloussant. She touted that her friend used it and it worked for her. Yada yada yada. However, she was talking about the pain involved in the growth of her mammary glands (similar to puberty pain) and how she had to massage them to help relieve her discomfort.

This triggered a memory for me. Years ago, I tried GroBust.  I bought the cream and supplement program and used them for about a month. I did see a noticeable difference in my breasts after just one month but the pain wasn’t something I was expecting. Of course the websites don’t tell you about the pain so as not to discourage you. Fortunately the pain is a sign that it is working!!

Recently I began to do more research on natural breast enhancement options.  I found many website including Bloussant. From an herbal stand point, most of the ingredients are the same, blessed thistle, dong qui, saw palmetto, and wild yam.  I chose Triactol figuring advancing technology would be better than a decade old recipe.  For more info on the ingredients of Triactol, visit Triactol.com

What really sold me though was if a product like this is cheap, its probably a rip off. Triactol is consistently priced with the other products. And the company offers a 60-day money back guarantee. All of the sites have a disclaimer that the products may not work for everyone. It’s nice to know that if it doesn’t work for me, then I can return it and get my money back.

I also sent an email to the Triactol Customer Service address and they replied within 24 hours. Once I made contact with them, I placed my order.

The only negative I can find about their site is when I clicked the link in my confirmation email, I was redirected to a form page. I tried to fill out the form exactly the way it directed and still nothing. Fortunately, they provide an 800 number to call. When I called, they answered all my questions.

So far so good. Now I just have to wait a few weeks for my breast enhancing cream to arrive then we’ll see if the proof is in the pudding!

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Integrating PayPal into Stripper Payment Options
The other night while I was working, I asked Marc for a dance. He said he would like to but had run out of cash.  Half jokingly I mentioned that I accept Paypal. His eyes got big and he said, “You do? Okay.” He got out his smart phone, logged in to his Paypal account then handed me his phone. I entered in my business Paypal email and he transferred $40 into my account.
Could this be a new way to accept table dance money? If you have a customer that would like a dance(s) from you but doesn’t have the cash, you have nothing to lose by having another option for payment.
What are the risks? As far as getting the money goes, the risks are fairly low when transferring money from one Paypal account to another. However, you’ll need to make sure you protect your personal account information – such as real name, email address, and possibly home address and phone number. I recommend you jump through the hoops and get a merchant account. Think of it as an investment and a business expense that is tax deductible (for those of you who actually claim taxes, that is). Another risk may be that your club won’t appreciate you exercising your right to alternative payment forms. Therefore, it is recommended that you keep this on the down-low with club employees and other girls.

What do I have to do in order to protect my identity? Here’s a brief list of steps you will take to set up a merchant account that will protect your personal information:
*What to call your business? Think of a business name that is unassuming – one that if some one’s wife were to look at a receipt, she wouldn’t freak out and he could easily explain.
*Set up a mailing address with some place like Mailboxes Plus, UPS Store, or a local service. Make sure it is an actual physical address not a P.O. Box. Also set it up in your business name.
*Using your new business address, register your business name with the state in which you live. You can do this at your local state office or online.
*Once you have your State Tax Id number, you’ll want to set up your Merchant Account with Paypal. Click below for more information about a Business Account with Paypal.

*Its also a good idea to get a bank account in the name of your business. Most banks offer free checking and/or savings accounts. You can link your Paypal and bank account so the money goes into your bank account automatically.
What do I name my new Paypal account? That’s easy – your business name.
How do I go about making payment options known to customers? When you are explaining the run down of the different dance and VIP room packages, just include Paypal in the list of payment options. Make sure that you explain the process with the customer as simply as possible. If they get confused, they will lose confidence in a process that is unfamiliar and shy away from spending money.
The whole process sounds more complicated than it really is and takes less than a week to get completely set up. Most questions are answered on the state website for new businesses. Just do a Google search for “register new business in *your state here* and follow the instructions. Easy peasy!

In a word?

Yes.

But allow me to explain. It has to do with how well you have taken care of yourself over the years and if plastic surgery is an option for you. For most women, your skin begins to lose its elasticity at about 40. That means that is when wrinkles begin to appear and flabby arms and even your butt begins to sag. However, if you look into facial peels, microderm abrasion, and other procedures you can still dance for quite a while.

The photo is of Tempest Storm and at 81 she still performs her burlesque shows in Vegas, NV. I’m not saying everyone can be a Tempest Storm but you don’t have to stop at 35 either.

If you are in the industry and are approaching 30 – stop freaking out! Women don’t reach their sexual maturity until about 30-34. It happened at 31 for me. Sexual maturity doesn’t mean you get super horny either. It is a change in attitude about sex and you’ve had enough experiences to know how and what it is you want from your partner. You also gain the ability to communicate it. This maturity is amazingly sexy to virtually everyone around you. I would wager that you will make more money after 30 than before.

In the fantasy world, young men drool over the experienced woman who knows what she’s doing and older men appreciate her confidence – meaning he doesn’t have to baby her ego.

<3 Perelandra