Integrating PayPal into Stripper Payment Options
The other night while I was working, I asked Marc for a dance. He said he would like to but had run out of cash.  Half jokingly I mentioned that I accept Paypal. His eyes got big and he said, “You do? Okay.” He got out his smart phone, logged in to his Paypal account then handed me his phone. I entered in my business Paypal email and he transferred $40 into my account.
Could this be a new way to accept table dance money? If you have a customer that would like a dance(s) from you but doesn’t have the cash, you have nothing to lose by having another option for payment.
What are the risks? As far as getting the money goes, the risks are fairly low when transferring money from one Paypal account to another. However, you’ll need to make sure you protect your personal account information – such as real name, email address, and possibly home address and phone number. I recommend you jump through the hoops and get a merchant account. Think of it as an investment and a business expense that is tax deductible (for those of you who actually claim taxes, that is). Another risk may be that your club won’t appreciate you exercising your right to alternative payment forms. Therefore, it is recommended that you keep this on the down-low with club employees and other girls.

What do I have to do in order to protect my identity? Here’s a brief list of steps you will take to set up a merchant account that will protect your personal information:
*What to call your business? Think of a business name that is unassuming – one that if some one’s wife were to look at a receipt, she wouldn’t freak out and he could easily explain.
*Set up a mailing address with some place like Mailboxes Plus, UPS Store, or a local service. Make sure it is an actual physical address not a P.O. Box. Also set it up in your business name.
*Using your new business address, register your business name with the state in which you live. You can do this at your local state office or online.
*Once you have your State Tax Id number, you’ll want to set up your Merchant Account with Paypal. Click below for more information about a Business Account with Paypal.

*Its also a good idea to get a bank account in the name of your business. Most banks offer free checking and/or savings accounts. You can link your Paypal and bank account so the money goes into your bank account automatically.
What do I name my new Paypal account? That’s easy – your business name.
How do I go about making payment options known to customers? When you are explaining the run down of the different dance and VIP room packages, just include Paypal in the list of payment options. Make sure that you explain the process with the customer as simply as possible. If they get confused, they will lose confidence in a process that is unfamiliar and shy away from spending money.
The whole process sounds more complicated than it really is and takes less than a week to get completely set up. Most questions are answered on the state website for new businesses. Just do a Google search for “register new business in *your state here* and follow the instructions. Easy peasy!

In a word?

Yes.

But allow me to explain. It has to do with how well you have taken care of yourself over the years and if plastic surgery is an option for you. For most women, your skin begins to lose its elasticity at about 40. That means that is when wrinkles begin to appear and flabby arms and even your butt begins to sag. However, if you look into facial peels, microderm abrasion, and other procedures you can still dance for quite a while.

The photo is of Tempest Storm and at 81 she still performs her burlesque shows in Vegas, NV. I’m not saying everyone can be a Tempest Storm but you don’t have to stop at 35 either.

If you are in the industry and are approaching 30 – stop freaking out! Women don’t reach their sexual maturity until about 30-34. It happened at 31 for me. Sexual maturity doesn’t mean you get super horny either. It is a change in attitude about sex and you’ve had enough experiences to know how and what it is you want from your partner. You also gain the ability to communicate it. This maturity is amazingly sexy to virtually everyone around you. I would wager that you will make more money after 30 than before.

In the fantasy world, young men drool over the experienced woman who knows what she’s doing and older men appreciate her confidence – meaning he doesn’t have to baby her ego.

<3 Perelandra

There is something so sexy about wearing thigh high stockings.
I wish I could put it into words – how they accentuate the length and tone of the leg. There is also something about them that is taboo. Seeing a peek of them when a woman walks by sends shivers up a man’s spine. It reminds him of the first time he was allowed (or not) to look up a girls dress.

From a woman’s perspective, this is amazingly empowering. To be able to illicit this kind of emotion from someone without even speaking to them is incredible. This is why a garter belt and stocking ensemble is the #1 lingerie that men love.

So I make it apart of my everyday stripper wardrobe. I mostly wear fishnets. The regular kind – not the industrial, fence or other. Not that there is anything wrong with them, mind you. They are still decorating your legs. However, I get more compliments on a sophisticated classic style. Customer feed back is essential.

I have both sheer and fishnets in my dance bag. But I favor the fishnets as they don’t run or tear as easily. And fishnets are usually less expensive. Did you know that you could pay as much as $100 for designer sheer stockings? I didn’t either until I did some shopping around.

Several months ago, Leg Avenue changed their fishnet material. It’s unclear why this is so. I would assume that the manufacturer of the stockings changed to the new inferior fishnet to be more cost effective. Grrrr. Not good for Leg Avenue.

My good friend and fellow co-worker, Brooke, and I wear the same type of stocking. We order stockings online probably once every 2 months or so. We began to notice the change relatively the same time. The stockings were less elastic. They began to pull from the top and gape at the back of the knee. At one point, I had to pull the excess from my toe and wrap it under my foot (we’re talking 6″ of extra) then slip on my shoe in order to make these cursed things work.

So, now I’m on a mission.

I need to find the perfect pair of fishnet stockings again. I began this quest a few months ago.
At first Brooke and I thought we bought the wrong kind – sort of mistaken brand identity. We inadvertently ordered the same pair from different websites. Upon comparison of the newly acquired hose, we found they were the same crappy Leg Avenue kind.

*Please keep in mind, that Leg Avenue doesn’t make all their own stockings. I am only having issues with this one particular fishnet stocking from them. Leg Avenue usually puts out pretty good quality stuff which is why I’m so butt-hurt about this!*

During my quest, I will be updating this page and posting individual product reviews of the different stocking companies so check back often.

Wish me luck!
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Leg Avenue -  (detailed review coming soon)

Elegant Moments – (review coming soon)

StockingsOnly.com (Click Here For Review)