In a word?

Yes.

But allow me to explain. It has to do with how well you have taken care of yourself over the years and if plastic surgery is an option for you. For most women, your skin begins to lose its elasticity at about 40. That means that is when wrinkles begin to appear and flabby arms and even your butt begins to sag. However, if you look into facial peels, microderm abrasion, and other procedures you can still dance for quite a while.

The photo is of Tempest Storm and at 81 she still performs her burlesque shows in Vegas, NV. I’m not saying everyone can be a Tempest Storm but you don’t have to stop at 35 either.

If you are in the industry and are approaching 30 – stop freaking out! Women don’t reach their sexual maturity until about 30-34. It happened at 31 for me. Sexual maturity doesn’t mean you get super horny either. It is a change in attitude about sex and you’ve had enough experiences to know how and what it is you want from your partner. You also gain the ability to communicate it. This maturity is amazingly sexy to virtually everyone around you. I would wager that you will make more money after 30 than before.

In the fantasy world, young men drool over the experienced woman who knows what she’s doing and older men appreciate her confidence – meaning he doesn’t have to baby her ego.

<3 Perelandra

Bambi. Coco. Mercedes. Beth.

So… what does your name say about you? What do you want your name to convey? What’s with the questions? It’s just a frikin’ name right?

When choosing a name one must not forget that it is one of the first things you will say to a customer. It can be a great marketing tool if you keep a few things in mind.

I actually stumbled on this principle by accident. When I first began dancing, I chose the name Jasmine because it is a flower that smells nice; it sounds exotic and is familiar to most cultures. However, as it so often happens, I moved to a new club. There was a Jasmine already working there and a girl dancing by my real name so both options were out.

Now came the dilemma. Do I choose another popular name or do I go with something more obscure? I decided the latter because I had regulars who followed me over to this new club and if I needed to move again, I wanted them to be able to find me.

Years prior, I had read the book Perelandra. I had considered it for a name but shied away from it. It was original but… This time I reconsidered it and went with it. As I used it, I became more comfortable and began to see a pattern emerge. Because the name is so unusual, people would ask me what it means, where it is from and what the book is about. From simply introducing myself, I found I was quickly engaged in intriguing conversation all the while building important rapport. Once the familiarity was established it became very easy to ask for table dances and get them.

I can hear some of you say “I can’t change my name now, I’ve been dancing for too long and customers already know me.” Sometimes it a good thing to re-invent your persona, especially if the current one isn’t generating much income. Only you can decide whether it would be worth it or not. You can also access a change in look to accompany your new name. If your current look isn’t attracting the type of men you are looking for, this is a great place to start.

Now, how to choose the best stripper name. Some names convey intelligence while others do not. Stay away from the most popular names like Porche, Angel, Diamond, etc. Those names show that you lack imagination.
You’ve basically got two options at this point:

A. Go with a ‘normal’ sounding name. i.e., Jenny, Amber, Mariah, Mary, Hope.

B. Something more exotic. i.e., Lailoni, Kimora, Avalon, Naiya. See ‘Exotic Names List

If you choose option A, then you need to pick a name that fits you. Most customers will ask you if that is your real name. If you choose to say yes, it needs to be believable.

If you go with option B, then the more obscure the better. When they ask you if it’s your real name or not, say, ‘Of course not. We all have stage names here.’ And then go on to tell them about your name. You’ll want to do some research about the name you choose as some customers will try to flip you shit for it. As you tell them what it means, you show that you are smart and sassy. Both of which are sexy.

Also think about the possible ways that customers will joke about your name and what smart-ass retort you can come back with. For example: A recent customer told me about how he was sitting at the rack and a girl named Tanzanite was dancing. To challenge her, he asked ‘Where is Tanzanite on the periodic table?’ She gave him a blank stare and turned around to dance for someone else. Now, if she had been smarter about it, she could have done some research about Tanzanite. She could say,’ Tanzanite is what is called a Zoisite. Zoisite is a calcium aluminum hydroxy sorosilicate belonging to the epidote group of minerals.’ She doesn’t have to actually know what that means because most men wouldn’t know what it meant either. The goal is to come across as savvy.

If you are unsure about your name and would like my opinion, leave a comment with your choices and I’ll email you back with my suggestions.

Hope this helps!

~Perelandra

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7 Step Strip Success Handbook Guide Review

A few weeks ago I was doing some research for my blog site. I happened upon a handbook called HowToStripper. Being a veteran dancer, I naturally became curious if there was really anything this book could offer me. I, however, am not one to subscribe to the idea that just because one has been doing something for a long time doesn’t make one a master at it. Honing skill is what makes you a master at something. So I decided to purchase this HowToStripper Guide figuring that if I didn’t learn anything new, it would be a good refresher course.

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Really the number one key feature is the continued email support from Jessica herself. I have found her to be personable and professional. Jessica offers personalization of your experience to help you get the most from this amazing manual. Her advice is practically priceless!

So, the question on everyone’s mind…Did it work for me?
Absolutely!
Not only did I begin seeing immediate results, but I made the purchase price of the manual back within the first hour! At a mere $67 my return on investment was astonishing.

HowToStripper was both a refresher course and an education. After reading the manual in a single day, I couldn’t wait to go into work the next night and put the principles into practice. And, I am excited to say, my nightly income has doubled and stayed that way!

Comments from girls how this has really helped them

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Jess, you have really inspired me..thank you. I cant wait to try some of these techniques. T. -USA

First I want to say thanks for writing this course and the personal attention. I think your course is a lot better than a course I spent $350 on three years ago! In fact, I found one particular bit very interesting and worthwhile – you said that other courses recommend not talking to guys about their jobs but that you found the opposite to be true. I don’t know if you were specifically referring to the one I bought, but this is something that course teaches and I had always followed it in the past. The other day I remembered that bit from your manual and I asked a guy lots of questions about his job when I got the vibe that he was proud of his success. I ended up making $500 off of him, and I can credit that at least in part to your advice. D. -Las Vagas

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~Perelandra

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